9th March 08 - "A Biblical view of Relationships Part 4"

REMEMBER you must the thing’s of God first before you find your appointed one. God blessed Abraham with ALL things and when he sent out his servant said to find his son a wife he seeked God first even though the woman was not for him!
“Then he prayed, O LORD, God of my master Abraham, give me success today, and show kindness to my master Abraham.”
Genesis 24:12
And almost immediately he met Rachael who did just as he had asked God to do, she showed him a sign.
“May it be that when I say to a girl, 'Please let down your jar that I may have a drink,' and she says, 'Drink, and I'll water your camels too'— let her be the one you have chosen for your servant Isaac. By this I will know that you have shown kindness to my master.”
Genesis 24:14

Once Jacob had met Rachael he kissed her check and wept! Now that’s a man who was truly in love!
“Then Jacob kissed Rachel and began to weep aloud.”
Genesis 29:11

He then spoke to her father about wanting to be with her, this is God’s way and should still be done now! MEN! if you cannot present yourself to her father then go to her spiritual father, her pastor.
We have to be so careful not to sew seeds in the wrong land because the land could ‘reject’ that seed.
God will always take care of his creation, so he has prepared the best for you.
10 [A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. 11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. 13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. 14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. 15 She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls. 16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 she sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. 19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. 20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. 21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. 22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. 23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. 24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. 25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. 26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. 27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her”
Proverbs 31:10 – 28
Look at this scripture and see what God has in store for the men! When a man is in trouble a woman will ALWAYS find a way! Men are strong are physically women are strong emotionally and mentally. When a man of God connects with a woman of God that is the strongest bond EVER! All because God is with them and dwells in them.
Amen!